A witchβs rite to release the old skin and rise sharper beneath the full moon.
Tools
- A silver, white, or black candle
- A bowl of water
- Salt, herbs, or flower petals (optional)
- A mirror
- A piece of paper + pen
- Something personal to you (jewelry, ring, crystal, etc.)
- Your breath, your reflection, your truth
If you donβt have tools: visualize every step instead. The spell will still hold.
Step 1: Open the Moon
Light your candle.
Place the bowl of water where it can catch moonlight if possible.
Whisper:
βBone Moon above me,
old Mother bright,
pull from my spirit
what no longer survives the light.β
Look into the water for honesty.
Breathe once into the bowl.
βWhat is hidden rises.
What is false falls away.β
Let the moon witness you.
Step 2: Name the Skin Youβve Outgrown
On your paper, write:
- identities
- wounds
- fears
- attachments
- versions of yourself
- or griefs you are ready to loosen from your body
Hold the paper to your chest.
Say:
βI honor what carried me.
But I do not worship old survival.β
Then:
βWhat once protected me
may now release me.β
Feel the truth of that.
Step 3: Mirror of Becoming
Take the mirror.
Look directly into your own eyes.
Not the performance.
Not the mask.
You.
Say slowly:
βMoon of bone,
show me the self
beneath the ache.β
Pause.
Then:
βI release the woman
who had to shrink, beg, chase, bleed, or break
to be loved.β
Feel her stepping away from you.
Not abandoned.
Completed.
Step 4: The Water Release
Rip, fold, or place the paper into the bowl of water.
Watch the ink blur or the paper soften.
Whisper:
βLet it dissolve.
Let it drift.
Let the tide take
what I no longer carry.β
Imagine every old version of you returning to the earth like ash after fire.
No punishment.
No shame.
Only transformation.
Step 5: Call Back Your Power
Hold your personal object in your hands.
Raise it slightly toward the moon or sky.
Say:
βI call my energy home.
From every wound.
Every memory.
Every person.
Every place
I abandoned myself to survive.β
Then:
βReturn cleansed.
Return sharpened.
Return mine.β
Feel yourself becoming heavier in your own body,
more present, more whole.
Step 6: Seal the Rite
Place your hand over your heart.
Say:
βUnder this full moon,
I do not ask to become.
I remember what I already am.β
Then:
βWitness me rising.
Witness me shedding.
Witness me returned to myself.β
Blow out the candle gently to release it into motion.
Final Blessing
Touch the water lightly with your fingertips.
Anoint your forehead, heart, or wrists.
Whisper:
βMay the moon strip illusion gently.
May my spirit survive truth beautifully.β
And for a momentβ¦
just stand there
as the version of you
that no longer apologizes for existing.
With Teeth and Tenderness,
Mother of Mourning
The 32nd Gate